Wednesday, 2 January 2013
I was recently asked to meet some escort companions for dinner and a-get-together. I was pleasantly surprised that another lady took the time to contact me and a few other select ladies because I haven’t really made any friends with any other escort companions, I am a lone wolf. Possibly because I grew up with a ‘keep your head down’ approach and don’t attract attention. But I understand that really means something when you have to work in industries dominated by women, for example table dancing. But I am talking about 30 plus women, dressed ready for a red carpet event in competition against each other; table-dancing is not the sisterhood. As a result, I am very glad that currently, I spend much of my nine-to-five working with men; men are rather uncomplicated creatures to get along with. There were ladies who thought they owned the rights to the songs that they danced to, and far too many that thought they already had the ultimate career, consequently they didn’t educate themselves for another day. Sadly I witnessed too many young girls living in a spiral of parties, gossip, alcohol and drugs. Another aspect I didn’t like was watching several of the girls, circling the clients at the club, in the same way vultures circle a carcass in the wilderness. I might like to shot guns, but I was never the hunting type; I rarely enjoyed the unsolicited introductions that were required to be successful in table dancing clubs. Not only is it easier when a gentleman chooses to introduce themselves, but it is far more pleasurable and relaxing. So when Anais, at http://anaisyeung.com first contacted me, I admired that she had put herself forward and took the time and effort to arrange a meeting. I figured it would be the perfect time to find out more about how other ladies manage their affairs and share information. I set aside my reservations, I have met very few ladies who are companions and I remained curious. I had the same questions most gentlemen ask themselves before arranging to meet an escort companion. Does she really look like that? Will she be a pleasant person to meet? Will our personalities gel together? What do escort companions provide? Needless to say my reservations were unfounded, in our small gathering of five, whilst we were all different; they were normal, ambitious women just like me. For a start, no-one looked like a porn-star, for all anyone would have known, we were five friends meeting for an evening meal. We came to discuss what makes the perfect companion, the perfect client and how to be friends within the boundaries. We all agreed the best companion is not only a part-time companion, but a lady with professional means. Even though this might lead to a lack of availability, but then a companion should not be sitting around bored at home waiting for opportunities. Her life is already full, with an educated mind and opinions. Although there is patient expectation, hopefully whilst waiting, the time will have passed effortlessly. Generally in return, I hope to have been charmed, and possibly learned something in communication, and there is nothing better than charisma and positivity. In return, discretion is paramount, no matter what happens. We also re-examined in conversation how a client should behave when arranging dates and meeting ladies, and we should be afforded the same courtesy as any other lover or partner, after all we also lead professional lives. Making-up trips to New York for example as a means to cancel our time together, or emails to cancel the night before could only lead to the end of the relationship. Fortunately, most gentlemen do understand that escort companions lead busy lives which have to be balanced like everyone else. We also discussed why we entered our profession and where we hoped it would lead. Everyone had a multitude of reasons, studies, flexibility, a desire to meet interesting men, someone to learn from, and to live a life less ordinary in addition to financial support to make the above possible. Like any other career, obviously you get to meet with people you decide are suitable friends and companions, and other times, people you would rather not meet again. But what was evident is how rational all of us were about that prospect, especially because life is too short for emotional vampires. Most of all, the most useful thing about the night was learning that women can work together to support each other rather than compete against each other, and even though we made our choice to be escort companions, we are just ordinary women, with just that little bit more experience!